36-year-old Huang Xuan, why don't you get married? family of origin is too cold and insecure.

As a common social phenomenon, single-parent families often cause heated discussions. Most children who grow up in single-parent families have a sensitive and fragile heart. Some people say that a person is what he is, no matter what environment he was born in. This shows that the healthy growth of single-parent children is closely related to their environment.

Huang Xuan was born in Lanzhou, Gansu. When I was in primary school, I moved to Guangzhou with my parents. From the northwest to the hot south, Huang Xuan was very uncomfortable. When he was 8 years old, he should have had a happy and carefree childhood, but he later recalled his childhood and said that he grew up in depression. It turned out that parents divorced because of disharmony shortly after moving, which caused a great blow to Huang Xuan. At an early age, I contracted a faint sadness in my brow and my personality became introverted.

In 24, Huang Xuan was admitted to the Beijing Dance Academy. At that time, he was in high spirits, which was the age to reprimand Fang Qiu. However, family of origin's indifference has always made him feel insecure, and his broken family ties are his eternal pain. Until his sophomore year, he met a beautiful female classmate. The same major and congenial nature made them fall in love quickly. They practiced together every day, had meals together and worked hard together to realize their dreams. Aesthetic love has brought more joy to Huang Xuan, and he has become much more cheerful.

Time flies. Huang Xuan has been promoted to junior year. The junior year is often the stage when college students begin to consider practical factors and their love affairs gradually mature. Girlfriend can't help talking about the future with him. When she talks about it in Kan Kan, Huang Xuan seriously says to her, "I think love is beautiful, but marriage is terrible." He thinks that marriage is the grave of love. If you don't get married, you will reduce your worries and the chances of emotional breakdown in your life.

Huang Xuan's family changed frequently this summer. Father Huang Yanping had a heart attack and died suddenly. Soon after, Huang Xuan's grandparents were diagnosed with advanced liver cancer, which brought an unusually heavy blow to Huang Xuan. During that time, he was devastated and had no time for love. Because his girlfriend was influenced by Huang Xuan's negative emotion theory, she was worried about their future. Later, my girlfriend revealed her love to her parents, but her family didn't support them. In the face of the ensuing changes, her boyfriend Huang Xuan was more pessimistic. A series of things made his girlfriend gradually lose the confidence to go on, and finally broke up.

In the next two years, grandparents passed away one after another, and Huang Xuan was extremely sad. Under the double blow of affection and love, Huang Xuan was even more sad and helpless. When he tried to divert his attention with his career, he didn't expect to hit a wall one after another, and no crew was willing to use him, which made Huang Xuan, who was lonely and helpless, even more pessimistic. He often drinks to drown his sorrows, but "it's even sadder to raise a glass to drown his sorrows". He cried while drinking and passed out in the shade of trees on his way home more than once.

Huang Xuan's mother once advised him that a negative attitude can't change all the sorrows in reality. Think about your father and grandparents who were proud of you and what they expected you to live. Although Huang Xuan's aunt is far away in Lanzhou, she has always been very concerned about him. After learning about his recent situation, she is worried and constantly encourages him. As the saying goes, if the sky is going to be sent down to Sri Lanka, it must first suffer its mind, work its bones and muscles, and starve its body and skin. I hope my nephew will cheer up quickly.

Although Huang Xuan has suffered from broken family ties, what she lost cannot be forced or sought. Everyone should cherish what they have at the moment to be truly happy. Huang Xuan woke up again under the warmth of his family, and he began to really reflect on himself: When survival is threatened, who has depressed capital? Only when you cheer yourself up will you not worry those who love you. The inner fear of marriage obstacle needs to be overcome slowly, and the love that truly belongs to you will eventually be obtained.

At a party in 21, Huang Xuan met the actor Li Qian, and Huang Xuan, both of whom were dancers, were congenial and fell in love soon. Two years later, Li Qian was 28 years old, and she and Huang Xuan told her that she wanted to get married, but Huang Xuan still had a strong fear of marriage knot. He and Li Qian truthfully expressed their inner thoughts, and now they can't break through the psychological barrier to get married. At the age of 4, they may consider it. But this was unacceptable to Li Qian, and they were finally forced to separate.

Time flies. With Huang Xuan's continuous success in his career, the media and fans are very concerned about Huang Xuan's personal feelings and ask him if he has a girlfriend. At home, Huang Xuan's mother and aunt also began to urge marriage. Although these words are concerned about themselves, they also put Huang Xuan under great psychological pressure. Huang Xuan believes that he has suffered enough from single-parent children. If he can't successfully defend his marriage after marriage, it will certainly bring endless suffering to his children.

In 219, Huang Xuan read several articles written by people who grew up in single-parent families on the Internet. Most of them are middle-aged, but they have no partners, children and are alone. Their articles remind Huang Xuan of his future, and his heart is complicated. He wants to change the status quo of unmarried singles, but when he can really untie fear of marriage's heart is still unknown.

In 221, Huang Xuan is 3 years old. He shines brightly on the screen and his role is deeply rooted in people's hearts. However, in his love life, he will still be lonely. Huang Xuan, who grew up in a single-parent family, is strong and independent, but the pain brought to him by the breakdown of family of origin will never be made up. Aunt has advised him to get married and start a family as early as possible more than once, because it is not easy for him since he was a child, and he has experienced the sufferings of separated relatives many times, hoping that he can get married and live a happy life as soon as possible.

Huang Xuan, with outstanding appearance, acting skills and temperament, has appeared in different TV dramas and tried different fresh lives. He likes to travel around, broaden his horizons and increase his knowledge, but the journey, like life, is not smooth everywhere. He went through a "hard journey" in Sri Lanka, but isn't life like this? He often says that he has an old man and a child in his heart. He can think like an old man and learn like a child. This shows that he is an enterprising person, and he can actively overcome fear of marriage's knot. I believe this day will come soon.

if you stay in love and don't get married, you may miss a good marriage. I believe that Huang Xuan, who is lonely in her heart, also hopes to find a good marriage and eventually form her own small family. I hope that Huang Xuan will one day walk into the marriage hall with courage and longing, and wish him to remain faithful to love forever, truly untie fear of marriage's heart knot and be happy and healthy forever. I also hope that countless single-parent children like Huang Xuan will bravely pursue true love and gain happiness as soon as possible.