The daughter-in-law is in confinement, but her mother-in-law is going to travel. What should she do as a husband?

I like a sentence very much: "feelings are like shoes, no matter what shoes, the most important thing is to fit;" No matter what kind of feelings, the most wonderful thing is harmony. "What kind of man to marry, this life is destined to live what kind of life. The most important thing in marriage is not how rich the material is, but whether the person you meet is suitable for you. It's like a pair of shoes. If they are compatible, no matter how many difficulties appear after marriage, you can feel the beauty and harmony of life.

In marriage, the most difficult problem is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. If the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can't care about each other, and the husband still obeys blindly, the relationship between the two people can hardly be regarded as complete.

Xu Man is my deskmate in high school. In my impression, she is a quiet girl, probably because she grew up in a single-parent family. Even if she meets any difficulties, she will keep them in her heart.

Later, she met her husband Wang Jun. After marriage, Xu Man was afraid that her mother was worried about her life. Even if she doesn't get along well with her mother-in-law, she only reports good news and not worries, and keeps everything from home.

Wang Jun, on the other hand, runs his own company and is as busy as a bee every day. Although Wang Jun is very busy at ordinary times, she is always thinking about her wife, and will take her to have a good meal whenever she has time. Besides, Wang Jun was generous to Xu Man, and he knew it was not easy to sympathize with his wife.

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But Xu Man's kindness is worthless in her mother-in-law's eyes. Mother-in-law likes to socialize and invites many friends to her home every time, but Xu Man doesn't like to talk. After coming home from work, she basically goes back to her room to read and study. Mother-in-law doesn't like Xu Man's quiet personality and thinks she is too boring.

In life, her mother-in-law didn't give Xu Man a good look. Lovely patience is limited. Even if Xu Man is gentle, he can't stand endless satire and neglect. Once, my mother-in-law took her relatives to travel. When she was climbing the mountain, her mother-in-law accidentally fell down. Wang Jun is very worried. When she got home, she was sure that she was all right, and he was relieved.

Without further ado, Xu Man asked for leave to go to the hospital to take care of her. She rushed in and out early in the morning, making breakfast for her mother-in-law and preparing medicine for her mother-in-law, which can be said to be meticulous care. But my mother-in-law is still not satisfied, always showing her face, and she hates her slowness.

At that time, Wang Jun looked distressed, but now that his mother was injured, he could only secretly comfort his wife and say, "My mother has a bad temper. Don't worry about what she said. I apologize for her first. If you feel uncomfortable, take my card to buy what you like and buy whatever you want. "

A word of comfort from her husband made Xu Man's depressed heart suddenly enlightened. If Wang Jun doesn't treat her well enough, I'm afraid Xu Man can't hold on any longer.

After her mother-in-law was discharged from hospital, Xu Man still took good care of her. Even if she was wronged, she chose to bear it, all for her marriage. Besides, Xu Man is very sensible, and she doesn't want to embarrass her husband.

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Later, Xu Man was pregnant, and Wang Jun was overjoyed when he learned that. He wanted to be a father, and now his dream has finally come true. Xu Man kept on working after having children. Although her husband is rich enough, she needn't work so hard. But Xu Man is a smart woman, because she knows that her mother-in-law always dislikes her. If she has no income, she will have no position at home in the future. Now my husband is willing to love himself, but in a few years?

For Xu Man, her father once loved her mother very much, but in the end he abandoned her cruelly. Therefore, in Xu Man's heart, she never felt enough security about marriage, and she hoped that she could become an independent woman. The biggest reason why Wang Jun fell in love with her was that she took a fancy to her independence.

During pregnancy, her mother-in-law treated her better, but her thoughts were more traditional. After Xu Man gave birth to her daughter, the smile on her mother-in-law's face disappeared.

On the same day, she went home without even looking at her granddaughter. Wang Jun was the only one in the delivery room, and Xu Man didn't see her mother-in-law, so she knew very well. My mother-in-law is bent on having a grandson, and it must be uncomfortable if she can't get it now. Moreover, Wang Jun had two days off, and there were many things in the company, so I couldn't let it go. So he had to trouble his mother. He said, "Mom, I'm going to work. Please take care of Xu Man and let her have a good confinement. "

Mother-in-law's tone is very poor She responded: "Looking for your mother-in-law, I was very happy to have grandchildren at first, but now everything has failed and I am in a bad mood. I want to travel. " After so many years of marriage, Wang Jun saw Xu Man's efforts. He thought that if he gave his mother more time, he would like Xu Man.

But now even her mother won't take care of her. Wang Jun said disappointedly, "Mom, Xu got married. Her mother is old and in poor health. How did she come all the way here? " Before you fell down during your trip, Xu Man immediately asked for leave to go to the hospital to look after you. She takes good care of you, even if my sister can't.

Now that she is in confinement, do you still want to travel? If you really don't like Xu Man, you'd better go back to your hometown and take care of my daughter-in-law. "

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Wang Jun's words left her mother-in-law speechless and she felt guilty. She said hesitantly, "How can you say that about your mother? I really married my daughter-in-law and forgot my mother. I'm not saying I don't take care of it. If I travel next time, you can go to work with peace of mind. "

The next day, my mother-in-law went to the hospital to take care of Xu Man. During her confinement, her attitude towards her daughter-in-law changed obviously. Xu Man's character has always been forbearing, and Wang Jun knows her very well. Even if she is wronged again, Xu Man won't have any complaints. But as men, if Wang Jun does nothing, their marriage will also be affected.

His overbearing behavior of protecting his wife touched Xu Man again. At the beginning, he was desperate to love someone, but fortunately the other person didn't let himself down. Now that they have been married for seven years, Xu Man has given birth to her second child, a boy, and her mother-in-law's wish has come true.

For the whole family, the responsibility of a man after marriage is heavier. If what a man says after marriage still has no weight, her mother-in-law will disrespect her daughter-in-law and even deliberately make things difficult for each other.

A responsible man knows how to protect his wife's dignity and understand her feelings at an appropriate time. Such behavior can not only win the lover's heart, but also adjust the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. And even if a man says something harsh, her mother-in-law won't really get angry.

When we got married, we never thought about divorce, but with good expectations, we want to be with the people we love for life, but falling in love is easier than getting along. I remember Tagore once said: "The road to the world is not covered with flowers, and there are thorns at every step, but you must walk through that thorny road, be happy and smile!" "

For women, the road to marriage is not paved with flowers. When you feel happy, every step you take will be full of thorns.

The problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an eternal problem. I hope more mother-in-law can sympathize with their daughter-in-law's difficulties and make their families full of happiness. I also hope that all women can meet a husband who can handle it clearly. Two people have gone through the most difficult road together, and each other's hearts will be filled with joy, and their married life will be sweeter!