Grasp the weather yin and yang

Daiyu is the reincarnation of the' crimson pearl fairy', so she is different from ordinary people; Her sentimentality is partly natural and partly due to her weakness.

The natural part of Daiyu's personality: The first time in A Dream of Red Mansions, Zhen dreamed of a dreamland and met a monk to talk about an affair that should be settled. During the conversation, he introduced the life experience of Daiyu. The original description is as follows:

On the west side of Sanshengshi River, there is a crimson pearl grass, and sometimes there is a waiter in Chixian Palace who irrigates it with manna every day. This crimson LYSIMACHIA has been growing for a long time. Later, nourished by the essence of heaven and earth and the rain and dew, she got rid of grass and wood and became a human form, only a female body. I wander in the sky all day. When I am hungry, I eat honey and olives as food. When I am thirsty, I drink seawater as soup. Because the virtue of irrigation has not been rewarded, there is a lingering meaning in its five hours.

In other words, before the crimson pearl fairy was reborn as Daiyu, she felt something in her heart; When repaying the waiter Shen Ying's kindness to Guan Fu, she chose the way of "repaying with tears of her life", which doomed Daiyu to be born with sentimental characteristics. Only sentimental people will shed tears from time to time, and only Daiyu will shed tears from time to time. The gratitude of the crimson pearl fairy to the waiter in Shen Ying can be paid off on earth.

The acquired part of Daiyu's personality: people are born with yang, more yang makes them strong, less yang makes them sick, and yang makes them die; Therefore, if the yang is sufficient, you can be healthy, the yin and yang in the body will be balanced, and you will be open-minded; If you are open-minded, you will not take things to heart, so you will often laugh.

Daiyu, on the other hand, has been weak since she was born, taking medicine whenever she can, which shows that she is very weak. People with physical weakness usually lack yang; Insufficient yang will lead to imbalance between yin and yang in the body, leading to emotional instability; It is easy to lose your temper, but it is long-term depression.

We often see such a phenomenon in our daily life: people who have not recovered from a long illness are either grumpy or depressed. Daiyu in A Dream of Red Mansions has both.

In the 45th episode of A Dream of Red Mansions, Daiyu stayed at home because she was in a worse mood than usual after playing with Jia Mu several times, but "sometimes she was bored, so I just wanted a sister to gossip, and when Baochai and others came to see him, she was too tired to speak." (Explain that Daiyu's mood is unstable) Later, because it began to rain, she painted Daiyu's melancholy, so she wrote such an infinitely sad poem "Under the Rainy Night Lights in Autumn Windows".

It can be seen that Daiyu is not only depressed for a long time because of her poor health, but also irritable from time to time.